Just the Subject itself.....my my my

 

My husband & I were discussing how times have changed from when our great grand parents were living until now...and much to my surprise my husband asked me what did I think was the biggest change....I told him a woman not knowing her self worth. Allow me to break it down to you as I did for him.

 

I am not sure how long ago...but I know there was a time when women stayed at home and tended to the home and were submissive they knew their role in the home and what their husbands role was. Sad to say a lot of men abused their role and caused a lot of women to look at submission in a totally different light.

 

There was a time when the men had to go to fight war; so the women worked in the factories and in the field....and to much of their surprise a lot of them starting find self worth in knowing that they were doing something that felt like they were needed in the sense. See what a lot of men don't know is that women do need to feel needed and appreciated; and when they don't they look for something that will fill that void. {I am not speaking to every woman about why we choose to work, etc. what I am saying is if we are so busy at work, and so busy in the church....how much time are we really giving into our home?}

 

 

We as women know how to multi-task...it is something that God has blessed us with. Knowing what all your suppose to multi-task is where a lot of women fall short. They add more to their plate than they can really handle; and when they become overwhelmed something falls short; and sad to say it's usually the home.....

 

I will only touch this particular topic for a brief moment......Submission.....is not something that man made up to get at women....it is something that God requires from women: 

 

 Colossians 3:18
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as it is fit in the Lord
Ephesians 5:22
Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord.....

 

If you are not submitting to your own husband you can not be submitting to God; because in order to submit your first have to be obedient to what God is saying to you......And notice God says your OWN husband....{I know I'm not about to get an Amen for what I am about to say} Don't submitt to the Pastor and try and make his plate and you can't submit to your OWN husband and make his plate....yes, yes and yes....... {....as much as it may make someone upset; you know it's truth; and if we are ever going to really walk this walk the way God wants us to its time out for sugar coating} {your soul is at state}

 

Moving right a long...... when we as women get it right....we will not only find our self worth but your walk will even be different.... Often times people would say I walk with my head up and they thought I was stuck up until they got to know me. Well, I am sure many think the same way still....& it's because their looking at me in the natural, but if you look at me in the spirit you will see I walk with my head up because I know who God is in me and if you look closer you will see my crown I walk as a woman on a mission and purpose and at the same time I am balancing my crown on my head {multi-task}

 

Every woman does not want to be a Virtuous Woman {that's why she's so rare} God has a special place in His heart for women; He allowed us to carry the Word first {Jesus}

 

Time and wisdom has taught me self worth does not come in a size 6, or a Cadillac Esclade, money or fame....self worth comes from within....and you yourself can not do it alone...it's something that has to be done by the Father.

 

EVERY wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands

 

{How are you building your home? In the natural and spirit...does not matter how pretty you decorate it, if there's not order, if there's not discipline, if there's no GOD....it will not last}