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I know I am about to loose a lot of women, but I have to speak what God is telling me. A lot of you are going to loose a good man, if you don't learn to Let go and Let God; loose that controlling attitude. How is it that God made man, and made woman from man and yet a lot of women are still trying to be the head, and we wonder why the divorce rate is so high. Allow me to take you to the word;
GENESIS 2:18
And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him.
* God never says He was making a woman to control over her husband, completely opposite, we were made so that man could not be alone, and to help assist him, not take over but to assist him. So many of us do not want to hear this because you have become comfortable telling your husband what he is and isn't going to do, that's not a virtuous woman and that is not how God intended for it to be. And do not be so alarm, because some women really don't know that they are even doing it; and if you wasn't raised in a household where your mom showed that respect and submissiveness to your father, then how would you really know. And sad to say but even the churches have failed women in really training them in what to do and not to do, so many play the part at church, but do not live the part at home, and it sends different signals to women. And some of us didn't have a father or mother for that matter so we went by with what we knew. Thank God for knowledge and wisdom to His word so that we can get a true understanding on how we are to be. Becoming a Virtuous Woman to your husband is a process, and it's something that takes time to develop; you have to develop character, meekness, patience, a sincere love for your husband and when I say sincere I mean you can't have hidden motives or agendas. You have to have a unconditional love and respect, admiration for him; can't be like the world tearing down your man, and not supporting, we were made to build not tear down. My husband and I have been married for 10 years and there was a time when my gosh I was so controlling and things had to be my way, but when I found Christ and really starting having a heart to please the Father, becoming a Virtuous Woman was a desire that I had to have. I learned that it has never been about me, and always about God, so many of us get so caught up in what we want, that we loose focus on what God wants for us. Being a woman of purpose is not just performing in the bedroom, you have to learn to know your husband, what does he like and what does he not like, and then you have to go before the Father and ask Him to help you, because it's not an easy task pleasing someone all the time, becoming submissive, and meek; especially if you are a woman that has a strong controlling spirit. It causes your man and people not to want to be around you because people do not like to be controlled, and if you really think about it you don't like to be controlled either. Now I am going to take you back to the word on how God made woman:
GENESIS 2:21-25
And the Lord God caused a deep sleep to fall upon Adam, and he slept; and He took one of his ribs, and closed up the flesh instead thereof;
And the rib, which the Lord God had taken from man, made he a woman, and brought her unto the man.
And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man.
*God made woman from the side, not the top or bottom, we are not above them, and we are not beneath them, but we walk with them by their side to support and love.*
Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh.
And they were both naked, the man and his wife, and were not ashamed.
Cleave is a strong verb, it means: join, to stick to
Becoming meek, and submissive does not mean you loose yourself. We as women find it so hard to step down because we are afraid. So many women have been beat, and abused that they've become like a turtle with a hard shell; and because a lot of women have not been healed it has caused you to bring it into your marriage. Only God can heal or fill any void in your life, and you can't keep holding your husband accountable for all the people who let you down and did you wrong. My prayer to you who's reading this is to Let go and Let God. Allow God to heal you so that you may experience being a Virtuous Woman for your husband. There is nothing that God will not do for you once you come into the revelation that it's not about you, God will make it where your husband will give you the desire of your heart as long as you are obedient to the word of God....your husband is saying help me, not hinder me. You are either going to be apart of the the problem or part of the solution.
Much Love & Prayer
God's Humble Servant
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