I must say I am in such awe by what God is doing...and I want to humbly say thank you to all you who really are praying for me and encouraging me to STAND and speak what thus saith the Lord....The next topic I received from a sister and God immediately began to speak to my spirit. Order Part 10 Order in Wholeness before,during & after Marriage
...God told me so many marriages in the House of God are form and fashion. I am learning that God is the only one who can make us whole. My heart is saddened within because so many people want to be loved but don't know how to love, and so many people think they know love because of their idea of love. I encourage any man or woman before getting married, take some time to get to know the Father, I mean really get to know Him, because when you have a RELATIONSHIP with the Father He will set the standard for the relationship you will have with others. Let's define what wholeness is: not broken or injured, intact, to be complete. I know many just sighed....know that it's not too late God can & He will I am telling you what I know I have tried HIM for myself....He is a mind regulator and He is a HEALER. When I married my man of God I was damaged, broken, hurt, no trust in people, cautious, empty, and tired. Imagine all of that baggage going into what's supposed to be a "new relationship". I was one that was made whole during marriage.
We will never be whole and complete until we not only accept but apply Gods word in EVERYTHING....you can't pick and choose what you will and won't and expect the results to be in your favor. If you are still broken and hurt then you are not whole, in order for God to work completely through you you have to allow him to put you together again. God is the Potter we are the clay let Him MOLD & MAKE us. God never said life would be easy, He said He would never leave us nor forsake us. It's time to really let go and let God because everything you have already tried is not working...why won't you try and trust God? It's unhealthy to be sick and get with someone that's sick because neither gets better it's the blind leading the blind. There is nothing we have or will go through that God does not already know about or prepare us for. He is the one who wrote our story from beginning to end and He knows all in between. I am always amazed when people ask God to send them help and then the help comes and then they don't want it...why is that? Is it possible that some of us prefer to stay in self-piety? Or mediocre? Healing is a process...it takes time but God is calling out to us and saying all you have to do it come and I will heal you.....
2 Chronicles 7:14
If my people, which are called by my name, shall humble themselves, and pray, and seek my face, and turn from their wicked ways; then will I hear from heaven, and will forgive their sin, and will heal their land.
God told me we put a higher price on man than God and we wonder why a lot of us are in our previous conditions. We can go to the doctors for many things, depression, anxiety, insomnia......and the doctors will prescribe medicine & hope it will work for you see that's why it's called "practice medicine" But how many know GOD is the only one who can do a spiritual surgery & remove things that you can only see in the spirit and perform that surgery without leaving a scar and HIS WORD......my God....HIS WORD is not only the only prescription that He gives you, but I guarantee you it will work.
1 Corinthians 5:9
I wrote unto you in an epistle not to company with fornicators
*We who say we are Christians are not supposed to mingle with someone and have a love affair and you're not married.*
{Many of us didn't know this in the beginning, but NOW that we are aware of it, what will we do?}
2 Corinthians 6:14
Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness?
Ephesians 5:11
And have no fellowship with unfruitful works of darkness, but rather reprove them.
*The believer of Christ is not supposed to indulge in the sins of the unsaved, we are suppose to expose sin by bringing them to the light and show them for what they really are, so that the unbeliever may see their hideous nature and their terrible consequence.*
Why do believers try to justify their relationship when in the eyes of God if you are not married you should not be trying to do what married people do period. Once again I know many did not know, but when you know and you still choose to do the opposite you are with out excuse....God said warn them {there is always a warning before destruction} Just like we have to stop playing church and become the church, it's time out for playing house and become one as God ordained it to be. Stop trying to say I am going to try him out first we can move in or we can have sex but I am not ready to commit. Men and women of God your temple of God should be holy at all times....why do we bother brushing our teeth and washing our body if we are going to leave our spiritual man dirty?
Matthew 22:37
Jesus said unto him, THOU SHALT LOVE THE LORD THY GOD WITH ALL THY HEART, AND WITH ALL THY SOUL, AND WITH ALL THY MIND.
When we really love God WITH EVERYTHING in us then we also love everything He has allowed to happen to us. I know it sounds strange, but think about it God is the only one who can ALLOW the enemy permission to come at us, if God allows it even if we don't understand it, we should love and thank Him because He knows what each of us has to go through in order to be who He has called us to be. A thankful heart is a heart of praise, worship and obedience. Love and thankfulness always bring revelation allowing you to see people and things in Gods light. It was hard for a long time to be thankful for being raped, and molested, and abandoned, and hurt {especially in the church} but honey I already wasted to much time in self piety when Gods Word became more for me than my natural food, when God starting working on me in the inside and started by changing my mind pattern when God started healing, and restoring me I began to understand HE IS ALL knowing; and all I had to do is surrender my ALL to God. God let me know tonight I have been made whole because I trusted HIM in my state of brokenness....That marriage that you are about to give up on....give it over to GOD I mean really give it to Him and take your hands off of it. Stop trying to think you can do a better job than God. God will fix that husband or wife.....but HE will start with you first. I hear the spirit of God saying it's time to purge and clean out Gods temple.....
Mark 2:22
And no man putteth new wine into old bottles: else the new wine doth burst the bottles, and the wine is spilled, and the bottles will be marred: but new wine must be put into new bottles.
When you are thankful for the long-suffering you then start having a testimony to help someone else out. God can only dwell in a clean temple, you can only be made whole by God, doesn't matter how much that man or woman loves you nobody can love you like Jesus and heal you.
