One thing the enemy does not want us to do is forget about our past, or forget about the ones who hurt us, or disappointed us. The reason he continues to replay this as if its happening right before your eyes, is because he knows you will not only let him play it, but he can bring up old feelings that you thought you were delivered from, and before you know it, you got an attitude, you're yelling at your children, you disrespectful to your husband, some of us even start cussing, you want to fight, anything and everything that's opposite of what God tells us to do. Let me just be real so that some people can get free. The devil only has the power that you give him. You can speak death or you can speak life. The enemy tries you when you are weak and vulnerable he does not come near you when your mind is on God and you are fired up for God and you are in your Word, but he patiently waits until you slip up and then he comes at you with everything he has because you use to be in his kingdom on his side, and now you are in God's kingdom so he has to try and get you back and he will try everything and everyone to make it happen. Now I feel if the devil is not messing with you, it's for two reasons, 1 he already has you, and 2 you don't have anything he wants, either way it goes, check your walk with God. So you mean to tell me that all those generational curses that has passed down from family to family, it can end with me, I can speak it declare and believe in the name of Jesus. You mean to tell me I can stop thinking about what has happened to me, and start thanking God for His mercy and grace. See we sometimes as human do not realize the power we give to people. I allowed people to decide if and when they would be my friend, I allowed people to try and tell me what my calling was, even though I knew they were way off, I allowed people tell me that because I was attractive and had a soft spoken voice I was lustful, and fast, I allowed people to decide how they were going to treat me, I allowed people to use me with my money, let's  just keep it real I am getting free. See I have no problem telling you my short comings and being naked and not ashamed, do not judge a book by it's cover, just because I am blessed and anointed I go through just like everybody else. God showed me the strongholds that not only the devil, but people had on me. When God opened my eyes, the devil knew he was in trouble, I no longer was walking around in my wilderness , glory be to God. I just had to listen to the calm, soft voice from within and He led me, and delivered me and I am FREE from not only the enemy, but people. I have a different attitude now about what you think about me, it really doesn't matter, because I know what the Father thinks about me. I have different answer when people ask me for money, I step out of my heart of giving all the time no matter what, and ask God who does He want me to give to, and please don't get it twisted, God has shown me who to bless and who not to bless, see everybody didn't eat with Jesus, and He did not eat with everybody He chose 12, and I am not claiming to be Jesus but He is my Father, I will not let everybody eat from me, and I will not eat from everybody. My look and my voice is the one that God has given me, and I will not ask God to change it anymore because some have not been delivered. See it's an individual walk to Christ, and God told me I had to not only speak out loud but I had to send it, because some that I am sending it to had me in bondage.