When you walk into someones home and there's order you notice it, and when you walk into someones home and it chaos you notice that to. God is a God of order so why would anything He make, He allow to be out of order? He wouldn't, some of us have allowed the enemy to have free run in our home, and can't understand why you don't have peace. Ladies, before you take on a role in the church where you have to be submissive, and obedient to leadership; let's start in the home, where we are suppose to be submissive, and obedient to our own husbands. How is it that we can say yes and submit to the man or woman of God, but unto our own we want to nag, and fight, and debate until we win, where's the order in that? When wives start really finding their place in the home, and do according to the word of God (Proverbs 31:10-31; Genesis 2:18;Titus 2:1-5), you will see that husband getting up, and leading, and making right choices for his family, but as long as you have a loud, nagging, stubborn, self fish, immature woman calling the shots you will never see the order that God desires for us all to have. And the reason I speak to the women is because we have forgotten what it really means to be a help mate. And no matter how many degrees one may get, we all sometimes need to go back to the basics. A lot of us have the mentally that because we are the women we run the home, this is not what we are suppose to do. Our husbands run the home,we manage it. Women we play a HUGE part in the home and in the church (we are the glue)), and if something is out of order it starts with us. Show me in the word where it says a smart mouth and talking loud, and nagging woman is okay; now I will show you where it's not:

 

It is better to dwell in a corner of the housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.

 

Proverbs 21:19

It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and angry woman

 

We wonder why the churches are so lost, and there's no real love, and movement of God. Everybody wants to be heard but no one wants to listen, everybody wants to be blessed, but no one wants to suffer, everyone points the finger to someone else, but no one is looking at themselves. Women God is calling us to get order back into our home. God made us to help man not hinder him, not be his mother, or drill sergeant, or fault finder, but to help him, love him, encourage him, stand by him, support him, reverence him, when we do what God has called us to do, maybe then we will start seeing them do what God has called them to do.

 

If you ask your husbands what do they want in their home, I gurantee you they will say a place where there is order, because order brings peace, love, respect, all those things come automatically with order. Be blessed!!!