When God gave me this topic this morning....I was completely in awe...because there was a time I used to be a heady (overbearing) woman. I am speaking to all women in general but especially my sistas...if we keep it real a few of you are saying in your mind, she is not talking about me...and I say yes I am. If we are going to be women of God and we want to become a Virtuous Woman, then we better stop thinking we have arrived and there's not need for change because all of us including myself can improve for the better. God said there are so many women who are pretending, and God is holding you accountable, you will not be able to say I did not know. Becoming a woman is not just a physical thing, but it is also a mental, and spiritual thing. Women are the glue to the family and if we are out of order our whole family will be. I am sure allot of you feel you know what God meant when He said for the women to be submissive to their own husband..I do not care how you try and put it or how you try and word it to be submissive is to yield to your own ways...it took me a while to get it, but when I started doing less of running my mouth and always trying to get my point across, I started seeing God manifest inside of me, and our home, and especially my husband...God will give us the desire of our heart, and we get that through our husbands...but so many of us are still holding on to the past, don't want to change, think we know everything...being submissive does not mean becoming a door mat, but it does mean it's not about you...some of you are looking for your husband to change, God made them the head, and change will come, but only God can do it not you. And ask yourself are you really obedient, and submissive to your own husband the way you are suppose to be? No man knows the time or hour of God's return, make sure your house is in order. And just so you do not think it's me....just so we are understanding this is not CaLisha, but God let me take you to the word:
Proverbs 21:9,19
9) It is better to dwell in the corner of a housetop, than with a brawling woman in a wide house.
* A housetop is the roof....it is better for a man to be in a corner on top of the roof, instead of a big home with a brawling (loud disagreements and fights) woman.*
19) It is better to dwell in the wilderness, that with a contentious and angry woman.
* The wilderness is a dry place and a contentious woman is a (a woman always ready to argue, quarrelsome)
Proverbs 11:4
A virtuous woman is a crown to her husband: but she that maketh ashamed is as rottenness in his bones
* A virtuous woman elevates her husband, but the shameful wife damages him*
Proverbs 11:16
A gracious woman retaineth honor:
*gracious means compassionate, and merciful, polite, kind
Proverbs 14:1
Every wise woman buildeth her house: but the foolish plucketh it down with her hands.
Proverbs 15:1
A SOFT answer turneth away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger
Titus 2:5
To be discreet, chaste, keepers at home, good obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God be not blasphemed.
If we as women would honestly ask our husbands how they felt, and are we as submissive to them as we are suppose to be, you will be surprised, but
I already know allot of you are not going to because you enjoy satisfying the flesh instead of the Father.
